Why I Think True Love is Rare
The question is does true love really exists or is it just a facade in some people’s mind and as a fact it really does not exist? The answer to that is so varied. Everyone has got his or her on idea of love. If you meet with someone who has been hurt broken so many times and they even stopped counting you will not hear the word true love. However, if you were to meet with someone who has been in a healthy relationship where their partners loved them and showed it to them, they will definitely say true love surely does exist. Whatever your answer is, true love really exists, and the sad part is that true love is rare. Many people have experienced true love, the only difference is that some of them would not know its true love even if it hit them in the face.
Some get into relationships because of something else other than love. Some people will get into a relationship because of money while others get into a relationship because of the person’s look. True love does not look at how the person looks like. It doesn’t look at whether the person is a model or a very attractive person. True, no one wants to date someone who does not attract them physically; chances are that if you do not attract the person physically, you will not have a lot of sparks going on in your relationship. However, true love is loving someone as they are. Physical attraction should come much later. However this is not always the case because true love is rare indeed. It is hard to find someone who loves you for who you are and accepts you as you are.
True love is about being there for the person during hard times and good times. However sadly, this is not always the case. When something major happens to a couple, you can actually literally measure how much the two of them loved each other by the way they act. Some people will bolt the first time they spot trouble. There are even experts in the field who can spot trouble brewing long before it actually happens and go before it actually happens. You will be very surprised when you come to realize that your ‘one true love’ left you after they suspected that you are going to be in trouble. An example is when you are about to get fired from your job. The second time you get the warning letter should be your count down to being single again. True love is rare, because how do you explain the person leaving immediately trouble presents it self yet they used to swear they loved you and they would never leave?
True love is rare no doubt about it but the few people who have experience it can tell you it is the most amazing thing that can ever happen to you. When you find someone that loves you truly instead of you testing him out every other day to see whether the person loves you or not go right ahead and enjoy it while it lasts.
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