When You Think You Have Lost Him – Clues That Tell You He Still Loves And Wants You
After a breakup, all you will be able to think of is getting your ex boyfriend back. This can cause you to be impatient and try to force things to happen. When you think you have lost him forever, this kind of action is easy to understand. But, if you give in to your emotions you may miss clues that he still loves and wants you.
Instead of staying in his face, you should put as much distance between you and your ex as possible. Drop out of sight for a few weeks and busy yourself with other things. Be patient and watch for clues that he still loves you and wants you. By giving him time to experience his life without you, he will see how much you mean to him. It will also make him curious as to what happened to you. Soon his imagination will begin to see you with some other guy and he will panic. This is when he will start giving out clues that he wants you back.
The first clue that an ex boyfriend usually gives is asking mutual friends if they have seen you. This shows that you are still very much on his mind. If he no longer cared about you he would not be asking about you. He would just forget about you and go on with his life. His next move might be to send you an email asking how things are with you. By doing this he is testing the water to see if you still care enough about him to answer. Do not be too hasty. Wait a few days or a week to answer him. You do not want him to think that you were anxiously waiting to hear from him.
Do not call him, just send him an email saying that it was good to hear from him and you are doing great. Add that you hope things are going as well for him as they are for you. This will surprise him because he was hoping that you would call immediately crying and telling him how much you still love him. Let things rest until he calls. His curiosity is bound to get the best of him and he will want to know what is so great about your life.
Before you take his calls, be sure that you will not start crying at the sound of his voice. Be upbeat and cheerful. If he asks you what is so great about your life, be vague and mysterious. Treat him like an old friend and make him laugh. Getting your ex boyfriend back can be as easy as watching for clues and letting him make the first move.
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