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Love a beautiful feeling

What can I say about Love…I mean if I start writing then this blog is not enough and I would need pages and pages talking a about love…Though there is no universal meaning for it…It is been used every now and then and a life without love cannot be imagined..The other word for love is Passion.There are countless ingredients attached to the word love like trust, patience, loyalty, devotion, adjustment, understanding,empathy,forgiveness, attraction etc the list goes on. 

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment  Philosophically speaking, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion and affection.When you love someone you have to accept all the emotions attached to it. Being with the person whom you love, even in his / her  hardest times is what is called true love..True Love never dies it only gets stronger as time passes by..Love has no language and sees no boundries..It happens when we least expect it… That’s why Erich Segal  is true in saying”True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.”

 I have always believed that love is a choice and not an emotion and as such it can be freely given without any obligations or conditions……Love is the master key that opens the gate of happiness..

Once I started looking at my relationships as a choice, and not just a series of obligations, my life vastly improved.  Because like many gifts, love reciprocates.  The act of giving love often makes it come back around, in a much fuller form when you least expect it to happen….

So take a moment and consider the love contained within you.. Don’t analyse how much love you get Instead appreciate how much you are able to give. Find ways to make giving love a more vital part of your life. And don’t forget that you don’t have to win a “love lottery” to find love; you can create it yourself….

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Love happens magically when you meet the right person at the right time and not to mention the right place will ignite it. Such love was called true love before but now love at 2nd sight, 3rd. 4th happens…..Now having more than 4-5 girlfriends / boyfriends is a fashion and frenzied passion…As before some boys are never serious about their love relationships and they make you fall for them and when girl starts getting serious he leaves her and goes for the next..so on and so forth..Girls are still sensitive on the other hand and always believe their lovers to an extent that finally they have to sit and cry…

There is no age for love and love never dies..It stays alive only the souls departs and as it is said love doesn’t happen between two individuals but 2 hearts become one and that’s where love blooms…Love & Passion is very essential for a perfect 10/10 relationship..In other words the other word for love is Passion..When you love someone you are passionate about him/her, this would prompt you to go out of your way and do things that you wouldn’t otherwise to please him/her..A relationship never makes sense if there in no love or compatibility involved..That’s why Love is more important because if you are not bonded together then a relationship will never work..

Sometimes Love can be dangerous addict too..As said by Elisabeth Gibert “ In desperate love, we always invent the character of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devasted when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.“When you see a girl / boy without even speaking you start analyzing them and invent your own character in your mind and as time goes by we start building up an imaginary image in our mind about him / her and expect them to be what we think they are..The love spark ends here when you get to know the person much more deep and you kinda feel this is not the right person for you as things are not going as you expect..Be realistic and understand after all we are humans and our emotions will never remain the same everytime…So love the person for who he / she is and don’t expect them to be some delusional image you created of him/her in the first place bcoz at the end of the day both of them gets hurt..

Love doesn’t only happen between two lovers, A Mother’s Love is always Unconditional towards her child..Mother..there is no one like her on heaven or on earth…Though some are deprived of mother’s love early in their childhood or after that, we should be thankful to the Almighty that we had the opportunity to experience and feel the love of our Mother’s…She was always there for you when you needed her, however grown up you turn out to be, you will always be your Momma’s sweet little child in her eyes…She is ready to take up any form for her child to protect him/her from the evil..She transforms into a guardian angel and guards you against any evil spirits that may harm you…As a child we clearly can’t recognise the mother’s love but when she goes away from you, memories flash into your mind just like it happened only yesterday…She clears all obstacles that come in our path and makes sure we are on the right  track…She takes on full responsility on her to support us for any genuine reasons when we are in trouble…But if we are wrong she advises and guides us to the right path..So my dear readers when she’s with you this is the time (Time will never wait for you) as touching token of your appreciation tell her she is more precious to you and how much you love her…Though you can never pay back what she has given you atleast you can make her realise what she is worth for..

I guess I have covered though not all but some aspects of love..Enjoy reading and don’t forget to leave your comments..

The cure for being single when nothing else has worked