The cure for being single when nothing else has workedLife After A Breakup – How Do I Put It Back Together?
Article by T.W. Jackson
It might seem like a pipe dream right now to enjoy a little taste of life after a breakup. For you it probably seems like something in a fairytale rather than something you’re even contemplating.
It’s probably all you can do, for the moment, to put one foot in front of the other and get out of bed in the morning. You can’t even imagine finding the answer to “how do I put it back together?” It’s just too much to contemplate – for now.
One day the question will weigh more heavily on your mind. When that day comes you’ll want to know what you can do to put the pain behind you and end it once and for all. You’ll want to start looking forward instead of living in the pain of the past. But how do you even get started when breathing seems to hurt right now?
Stop Trying
You’ve gotta love Yoda. “No. Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.” Those are awesome words to live by at a time like this. Trying to live is excruciating. It’s a one step at a time process that brings a tremendous amount of pain into the picture.
The problem with trying is that it draws attention to the fact that you’re trying. In other words, you’re not REALLY living. You’re just going through the motions and pretending to do it. That’s no way to be at a time like this.
You just have to do it. Make yourself do it. FORCE yourself to do it. Don’t TRY to go to the efforts of living – LIVE.
But, how do you do THAT?
Surround Yourself with Love
This is not the time to wrap yourself up in your own personal ball of misery. You have good friends who will pull you through this difficult time. They LIKE you and they want to help.
Let them!
It’s much easier to go through the process with them by your side than to go it alone. More importantly, they love you and want what’s best for you. The more love in your life right now, the faster your recovery process will be.
Avoid drawing the blinds, overdosing on daytime talk shows, and eating nothing but cereal until the milk goes bad. You deserve better than that and your good friends don’t want to let that happen to you.
They want to take you out to the latest comedy club and help you slowly but surely get back into the role of the living.
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