How to Find Love – In Search of Someone to Fulfill That Human Need Called Love? Here’s Help
Article by Cynthia Amos
“How to find love?” Ah, there is the question that has been around since the beginning of time. We’ve asked ourselves it before, we’ve asked others, and we’ve tried to learn how to do it on our own. Love is a human need that we all have, and I couldn’t even explain why someone would want to live without people who loves them. There are some men and women in the world who absolutely hate the idea of having people who care about them.
They feel that if you need people and friends that it makes you weak. That is absolute nonsense. People and friends build us up and let us know more about ourselves than sitting alone in our homes and apartments at the age of 40 would ever do for us. Why wouldn’t someone want friends and someone who cares about them? That’s the only reason I can tell you. There are people who just want to be alone for the rest of their lives thinking about their regrets and having fun by themselves.
Its their life and they can live it the way they want to, but for those of you who want to know how to find love, its simple. Take advantage of every opportunity in life. Whatever you do in life, you’re going to always be surrounded by people who you have the opportunity to speak to.
Take a chance and walk up to somebody and start talking. Its not hard at all. Get rid of whatever it is that is telling you not to bother them or they don’t even like me. That’s just dumb and its called thinking like a high-school freshmen trying to figure out which lunch table they should sit at during lunch.
If you want to know how to find love, you just got put yourself out there and take chances. Take a chance at asking her out, the worst thing she can say is no right? Well, maybe she can say something worse but don’t let it get you down, its all part of life. Same thing goes for women, don’t be afraid of rejection.
If you get rejected by someone, keep your stability. Just shake it off and keep living your life. The point is to take the opportunity to say something to people…to anyone. Ask a question, smile, be intelligent, have fun, and take a chance. Its ridiculous to live everyday afraid of what people are going to think of you if you walk outside wearing that, or having your hair like that.
This is how to find love, take every opportunity to share with people who you are, and don’t ever be afraid of looking stupid. That’s how to find love, please take it seriously because it is.
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