The cure for being single when nothing else has workedHow Do You Love Again?
Article by Deidre Glendon
Copyright (c) 2011 Deidre Glendon
Do you remember the song entitled Secretly that contains the lyrics “We just have to be in love secretly. Why, oh why, oh why, oh why, oh why?” We are so in love with love! Love is a word that is used in many ways. Some examples are, “I just love that song, I just love food, I love your smile or I love you so much.” Love can be referred to as the law of vibrational essence. It is a feeling that is evoked from the highest vibrational essence that is at the core of our soul’s essence. We thrive when we are feeling loved and are loving in return. Many experience the feelings of bliss that gives us the reason for existing.
On the other hand without love we feel a deep and dark void. We feel that there’s no reason to live. When the love is gone then the joy of living is gone. This is a dangerous place to be. Many fall into a deep depression with dark moods and confused thoughts. We yearn for love. We yearn for the light in our life. We yearn to belong, to be held and comforted and to feel love again. For some, without love there is no reason to go on. We either literally stop living and pass away from a broken heart or we stop living emotionally. We just go through the motions of living without the happiness, joy, peace and love that is so critical for an emotionally healthy, fulfilled and blessed life.
Where is the light at the end of the tunnel? Where is the love? Why can’t we find peace, harmony and happiness? Why, oh why can’t we stop the dark feelings that we have? How do we find the love in our lives again? The love within you is the first step. Do what makes you happy. It may involve taking a trip, meditating, hiking, bicycling, swimming, skiing, reading, getting a massage, going to a nice restaurant for a nice meal, watching a movie or getting together with your friends. Take care of yourself. Feed your soul. Give back to yourself. Be kind to you and forgive yourself for anything you did or may have done or said to anyone. Allow yourself to love and to be loved again.
Take baby steps in the direction of your healthy life. Surround yourself with gentle surroundings along with loving and supportive people. Gravitate towards positive people and be positive in return. What you give out comes back to you. When you change or shift your energy then your experiences change also. Be loving, caring, considerate and kind. Love is the answer and love is within you. When you find that love within you then you’ll be ready to love again.
About the Author
Deidre Glendon, MEd: Her death experience and intuitive insights led to helping others and to write The Healing Light, Trouble in Paradise and Light of Forgiveness. To see more excerpts on peace and stories of healings visit her website and click on Light of Forgiveness at http://wwwdeidreblog.blogspot.com
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